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Subject: Fidgit- Um... SEX
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PandemoniumUser is Offline

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08/13/2010 2:54 PM  
Ok... I feel a little odd bringing this up but... Guys, first time and the girl is pushy or nervous. how would you react to that
Grant I.User is Offline

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08/14/2010 4:19 PM  
Hmmm...I think you're fidgeting a li'l too much. What are you gettin' at, son? The only good way to react to sex if you're not married is to run like the wind and don't look back. Seriously. Don't even. Trust me. Bad idea.
Lucky AlbatrossUser is Offline

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08/19/2010 11:26 PM  
Something I read in an AskMen article that was oddly fitting:
Lust is especially dangerous because it causes a man to think with his crotch and throw all reason and logic to the wind. When a man's in lust he doesn't care if he and his partner have anything in common. He's not interested in where she comes from or where she's going. His brain is only focused on using his key to unlock the door to the secret cave. If his partner's only in lust, she'll use this against him, but if they're both falling in love, this sexuality is a bond.


To answer your original question, I would think she's not ready emotionally. Just think with your head instead of your hormones. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 usually helps!
One step at time,
I trust these feet of mine,
To carry me on to where I belong.
Mike Zito
nateynateUser is Offline

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08/24/2010 4:43 PM  
dont get into that situation in the first place
" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"

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artyprincessUser is Offline

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08/26/2010 5:12 AM  
this really shouldn't be a problem. Say no.
And walk away, RUN if you have to.
God Can.
Clockwork*User is Offline

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08/26/2010 7:29 PM  
Not to bash you but (assuming this is pre-marital) you should know, being a Christian or not, that engaging in sexual relations with anyone outside of marriage means hopping into a world of trouble. If she is pushy don't run initially, explain to her that it is not advised you two should be doing this before marriage. Also explain THOROUGHLY any other reasons you have as to why sex should wait. I know it sounds like pre-school stuff (not literally) but I mean I would expect anyone at the age of considering sex would know this anyway. Unless you just needed an excuse to bring up the topic of sex =P. In which case I don't blame you hahah.
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I sit in this chair in awe of how you have this effect on me. It's as if I went to a pharmicist and they handed me you. When I smell you I become intoxicated by your narcotic aroma. I am addicted to you as if you were some specialized nicotine. I swallow your gaze like ecstasy. Please sedate me and do what you wish; never cease to be my personal prescribed heroin...

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