Nikki
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| 10/18/2010 10:36 PM |
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| If you have any questions whatsoever about girls, feel free to ask them here and I will do my best to answer them.
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cassie14
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| 11/14/2010 2:34 PM |
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wow your brave! lol haha  |
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*judge no one* |
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humandude15
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| 11/14/2010 9:42 PM |
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| When do girls usually start feeling "serious" about a guy? |
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Going through this life looking for Angels
People passing by, looking for Angels. |
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Victoria
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| 11/15/2010 5:08 PM |
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| Hey guys! So I'm actually Nikki, I wanted to make sure that I trusted this site before I shared my personal info. Nikki is the name I wish i had been named, it's so pretty, and I use it if I want to try out a website first.
Haha thanks Cassie! u have such a pretty name! my best friend in elementary school was named Cassie!
Ok, humandude, your question doesn't have a short answer. I've never been in a serious relationship (I'm saving myself for my future husband), but I'll try to answer this the best I can. (Also, just making sure you understand this, this is from a Christian girl's view)
Every girl is different, but I think most start feeling serious when they are sure that the guy is going to protect them, and not try to force them to do anything they don't want to. Also, I think most girls want to get to know the guy before they become really serious.
Again, this is a hard question, any other girls comments? |
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cassie14
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| 11/15/2010 7:33 PM |
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| wow Nikki you hit that one on the head good job! and thank you i actually dont care for my name that that much its ok tho and yea humandude shes right thats when girls start feeling "serious" in a relationship tough question but you did good answerin it good luck with the others! |
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*judge no one* |
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Victoria
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| 11/15/2010 7:47 PM |
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| Oh haha thanks! I try to make my answers as Biblically correct as I can, but this time I didn't have my Bible nearby, so I couldn't include any verses!
Also, my real name is Victoria, please call me that! Nikki was just a made-up name, so I could try out the website... |
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cassie14
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| 11/15/2010 7:51 PM |
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| well vitoria you have a pretty name as well |
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*judge no one* |
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Victoria
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| 11/15/2010 8:43 PM |
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| Thank you! |
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humandude15
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| 11/17/2010 10:28 PM |
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Thanks. Its just i'm trying to get through high school in one piece minus the beating i get during football practice.
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Going through this life looking for Angels
People passing by, looking for Angels. |
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JoJo
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| 11/18/2010 5:56 AM |
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| hehe yeah, idk for me, you can tell I'm interested/serious when I either start acting a little odd around you, or I can be all huggy with other guy friends but not with you... though i do tend to be different depending on the guy... |
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Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live
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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
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Princesa
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| 11/18/2010 1:25 PM |
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There's no short answer for when girls start feeling serious about a guy. It's different for every girl! And depends on the guy, circumstances, etc. For me, it was practically love at first sight. I knew as soon as I'd met him that he was my type. Then, like Victoria said, I just had to get to know him, make sure he was what I thought he was.
Girls do often act different around guys they like. |
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artist_for_christ
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| 11/22/2010 10:54 AM |
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| Like Victoria said, it depends on the girl but girls start to have crushes on guys around 8-10 sometimes younger, but I know that I started thinking seriously about guys when I was 16,17. Although I have never had a boyfriend, I do feel that people shouldn't start dating until after high school. In high school, people talk too much and all that talk tend to lead to bad things happening in the relationship. |
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~Lauren~
But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ
Philippians 3:7-8 |
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Nicole
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| 11/22/2010 11:48 AM |
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Victoria, I think you have a pretty name actually Nikki isn't my name, but it's the nickname people designate for me.  I guess it comes with Nicole Haha!
Anyways, I have to say that I have never been in a relationship with a guy- at least not seriously. I do agree that it is different for various girls on when they get serious about a guy. I would agree that it happens when a girl feels she is protected by her significant other, and that she can trust him with her heart. She knows him in more ways than one, and accepts him that way and likes who she is with him. Did I make any sense? Either way, there are probably other answers that other girls have |
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whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain |
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ioannes
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| 11/29/2010 2:18 PM |
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How can I know if a girl like me ? like like me for real not just fooling around  lol
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clare
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| 11/29/2010 2:45 PM |
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| if a girl cares about you, and not just to fool around...she will not initiate anything physical. She will have her own stand for purity, she'll be praying for you on her own (assuming you're a christian) she will be trying to build you up and help you be a better man rather than tearing you down and getting you to do things you don't want to. She'll be there for you night and day...and if she feels you deserve better than her, she'll try to leave you so you can find (what she thinks) would be a better girl. (don't let her do that!) |
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ioannes
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| 11/29/2010 4:50 PM |
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wow! I'm speechless clare, thanks for your answer.
I bought the books (FYWO and FYMO) and I made a mistake on the shipping address It seems like I am going to wait to read 'em  |
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artist_for_christ
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| 11/30/2010 12:12 AM |
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| If a girl is serious about you, they'll start talking with you more to get to know you more personally. They won't cling onto you at church/youth group/college group/school, etc but they will want to hang out more. This is to see if the guy is interested in any of the things they are and also just to see how they treat others and handle different situations. those are some physical signs but they will also be praying and asking God for wisdom and guidance to see if that guy is right for her. They'll be digging into His word and seeing if the guy matches up with the qualities she is looking for in a guy based off of scripture.
A good friend of mine recommended looking up the different verses that talk about how we should treat our brothers and sisters in Christ and then describe each verse with one word: respect, honor, cherish, kindness, considerate, etc. and see if the person you are interested in matches the list of words. |
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~Lauren~
But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ
Philippians 3:7-8 |
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Victoria
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| 12/20/2010 6:53 PM |
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| Artist for Christ, you said exactly what I wanted to say! I have nothing to add! |
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Q
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| 01/03/2011 2:28 AM |
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Hey Victoria, I have a new question, a lot of guys say that women are illogical and a lot of women will say it too, but the more I read about women and think on what logic is the more logical women seem and the more illogical men seem.
My question is, why are women so quick to agree with men that they are illogical? |
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clare
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| 01/04/2011 2:46 PM |
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| Because we even find ourselves complicated. Or because many men really don't understand the way women think we start to convince ourselves we really are illogical!! Most men wouldn't say the woman's way of thinking is logical and trying to convince them other wise makes the situation more confusing!! |
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