Jimmy
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| 11/29/2009 4:03 PM |
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| I agree with a lot of you and AllieRay. I don't think there is a safe alternative. If we can make out that you're a girl you already lost. You are going to be attractive as long as we can tell you are a girl or a woman. If I saw a girl swimming in jeans and a hoodie I'm still going to be attracted to her the same I was before. I would definitely think she is weird though. Why is she swimming without a bathing suit? |
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natasha pearl
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| 12/01/2009 1:41 AM |
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i swam in a pair of overalls once  hahaha cause i frogot my swin suit  but it was at a lake sooo its not really that weird  |
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ITS ALL THE SAME TO THE CLAM |
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Jimmy
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| 12/01/2009 10:04 PM |
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| you turned someone on |
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Adelynn
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| 12/02/2009 9:36 AM |
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| How is showing an attractive figure (in a fitted bathing suit, which most are) different from showing skin (maybe by wearing a bikini)? |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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clare
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| 12/02/2009 6:55 PM |
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| If it can be made out your a girl, than praise God! I wouldn't want to be mistaken as a man. But if all of your legs are showing, stomach, all your back, well, really what isn't covered? I don't want other men seeing almost as much as my husband will. If 3/4 of you is undressed, tehn you're saving that 1/4 for your husband. How cheap. At least put shorts on or a higher top. A beautiful girl won't necessarily make a guy fall, a girl pretty well undressed is. |
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Rose
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| 12/02/2009 9:08 PM |
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| Great way to put it, Clare. I want to save as much of me as I can for my husband. :] |
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God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of POWER, of LOVE, and of SELF-DISCIPLINE. So do not be afraid to testify about our LORD.
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Liz
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| 12/03/2009 7:04 PM |
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| Yeah Clare, I really like the way you put it.
I agree with you too, Rose. I'm saving as much as I can! |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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natasha pearl
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| 02/24/2010 10:38 PM |
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| clare you are so right |
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ITS ALL THE SAME TO THE CLAM |
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rachel
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| 02/25/2010 5:22 PM |
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okay i dislike bikinis because all the girls that i see wearing them, well they act all snobby and like "oh i'm amazing and look at me cuz i'm wearing underwear and a bra..."
i personally don't wear one because i'm slightly over weight and i feel that it only makes me look fatter so i kind of like the one pieces or tankinis because they cover my belly and don't make me feel so selfconscious.
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"The difference between involvement and commitment is like a eggs and ham breakfast: the chicken was involved-the pig was committed." |
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natasha pearl
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| 02/27/2010 6:13 PM |
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| yea there are some girls wear bikinis that act snobby ... but there are some who don't.. i have friends that wear them that are very nice people |
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ITS ALL THE SAME TO THE CLAM |
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Adelynn
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| 02/27/2010 10:30 PM |
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| how do you explain to a young 10 year old girl why she shouldn't wear a bikini? |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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clare
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| 02/28/2010 6:22 PM |
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| Well..when I was a kid and it was pouring down rain my younger brother and I always wanted to strip to our underwear and go run in the rain!lol but when I was 7 mom said I couldn't do it anymore. I was baffled and she said that big girls shouldn't run around in their underwear. So my little brother got to breeze around and I couldn't. I guess that applies to swim wear, guys get to take their shirts off girls can't. breezing around in next to nothing..I find a little disgraceful! |
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Beckah
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| 03/01/2010 10:45 PM |
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Im not allowed to wear a bikini. I am perfectly fine with it, wouldn't it feel awkward?
2 years ago my little brother(now is 8) was taking swimming lessons at the local pool, 2 of the lifeguards/teachers were wearing bikinis, they were just high school students, and the pool board had a rule at one time ALL lifeguards MUST wear a onepeice, so any ways when my mom went to pick him up he said" hey mom my teachers are wearing a bra and underwear!" i dint even know he knew what a bra was but he did...boy did my mom freak she had a little talk with them but they still wear bikinis. so after that my parents went and bought an above ground pool. |
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"Check yourself before you wreck yourself" |
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humandude15
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| 03/03/2010 2:16 PM |
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| I don't think bikinis are very modes(dude talkin here) and I live in a very rule middle of know where kind of town, where there is extremely little thought to modesty. When my church has a pool party at the local pool, there is I think one girl who wore a bikini, and during the first month of summer we go to a church camp and the rule for girls is 'NO Bikinis'. So I think it is sorta in between for that. But overall I'm am against bikinis cause they reveal to much. |
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Going through this life looking for Angels
People passing by, looking for Angels. |
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natasha pearl
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| 03/03/2010 9:48 PM |
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| clare i know what you mean when i was little i used to take my shirt off on hot days just like the boys all my cozions on that side of my fam was boys but then i got to around 7or 8 years old and my grandma said i was getting to old for that now hahaha at the time i was like "this makes no since " but i'm glad i don't run around topless now haha |
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ITS ALL THE SAME TO THE CLAM |
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Kaylie
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| 03/04/2010 12:42 PM |
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Okay, i totally agree with what everyone is saying, and i have always been very shy and self concious(sorry bout the spelling) of myself, but at the same time i like wearing a bikini. it make's me feel female and good about myself. yeah i don't think girls should let everything hang out but you can be modest in a two peice. i have a habit of buying a bikini and putting swimming trunks on over the bottoms but thats basically it.
During the summer our youth group goes swimming alot and i always wear a t-shirt over my top but when its just me and some friends hanging at the lake or something, i fell i can still be decent without being entirely clothed the hole time. i don't do it to be Sexy and it isn't always what you wear, but how you present yourself. |
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Liz
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| 03/04/2010 12:46 PM |
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| I was Aeropostale yesterday and they have one of the COOLEST things I think I have ever seen: They look like bermuda shorts, but they're made out of swimsuit material! I am totally going to go get some (as soon as I get some money) |
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A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her |
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artist_for_christ
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| 03/15/2010 12:19 PM |
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| I have to say that I only wear one piece's just because that's all my parents will allow me and plus I'm not in the best shape since I'm a little overweight. My sister who is in much better shape then me and doesn't have love handles wants to get a bikini to where under a surf shirt just because it's easier to change in and out of then a one piece where you have to wrestle the thing on. I think as long as you don't get a string bikini and you wear a surf shirt, tanktop, or tshirt on top, their fine. We'd prefer a tankini but their so hard to find. |
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~Lauren~
But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ
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Terasa
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| 05/23/2010 4:16 PM |
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Posted By Koudee on 05/13/2009 12:13 AM
=Koudee thinks=
....I could make a killing designing clothes....
thats what my mom and i thought too...... personally bikinis bug me..... my mom is kinda controlling on what i wear but im good w/ that.... she would let me get a tankini if our school rules allowed it..... so i wear one pieces...... but would a guy tell me if v-necks on swimsuits would bug them?? (i couldn't think of a better word)
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Dannyb
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| 07/17/2010 7:17 PM |
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It amazes me how many girls have some hard times shopping for a swimsuit. My sister has that problem. But would it be immodest for a guy if he went swimming shirtless? What if hes all ripped? 
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