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DrakeUser is Offline

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07/09/2011 6:57 PM  
thats where i have no choice but to agree mostly. i mean yes they should keep it to a minnimum but sometimes as long as they keep control and dont let themselves be carried away a quick kiss (not pash/necking mind you) should be fine. but like jojo said its best not to get carried away. and to be honest i didnt think girls went THAT fast into thinking they were in a relationship. i mean sure ive heard of drwing the names thing but the quick thinking thing was really surprising. guess you learn something new everyday. :) but it still brings it back to the question of how mature the two are. mostly at 13-14 they arent ready at all. 15 maybe. rare though. 16-18 is usually better. older is i guess best but sometimes things come in the way so you have to get in fast or shes gone. because of this im trying to learn all i can by reading this book and going on these forums. but strangely its sometimes just comfirming what i know other times it isnt i dont know. guess thats why im on these forums. :)
"For god so loved the world that he gave his one and only son. That whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life." Bible.
"For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of god". Bible.
"Use your head to show your heart what you truly want." Aaron Ward.
Do not just look on one side of the tree that you see for good apples but also look on the other for you may find the best where you aren't looking." Aaron Ward.
"Don't try to gather all apples off a tree to compare them. For that will take forever. Rather just look and see so that you find the perfect one rather than going through many to be dissapointed." Aaron Ward.
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07/13/2011 12:21 AM  
:) Yes you do definitely learn something new all the time. I agree with that.
Clare, that was wonderful! I like that, it's really fascinating and interesting to learn about male and female pheromones, and hormones. :P What you said makes a lot of sense, and I think it's important to remember that.
Dating.. well I agree that the older you are, the better it is when you date. For the most part, people grow up and mature as they age, though I have to admit there are a few exceptions in which case people kind of maintain that childish immaturity. What Jo says is quite true: girls can jump from one thing to the next pretty quickly. (How do you think we move from one thought to the next and find a conclusion within seconds?) :P I can come up with crazy notions once in a while.
whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain
DrakeUser is Offline

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07/13/2011 4:07 AM  
Well its like I said. I agree with what you say and I see where your comming from. But sometimes its a grey area. Sometimes it really depends on the couple knowing their boundaries and making sure they keep it. I understand what you mean by pheromones as i learnt reproduction last term. Also I challenge anyone to listen to my teacher about sex without being turned off it forever.:) but yea it can be difficult for some but it depends on how mature the two are. And @ jojo I didnt realise girls thought so fast. Guess ill have to be even more careful with her next year than I thought i had to be. Thanks for the thoughts girls though. Looks like I dont know everything afterall.:)
"For god so loved the world that he gave his one and only son. That whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life." Bible.
"For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of god". Bible.
"Use your head to show your heart what you truly want." Aaron Ward.
Do not just look on one side of the tree that you see for good apples but also look on the other for you may find the best where you aren't looking." Aaron Ward.
"Don't try to gather all apples off a tree to compare them. For that will take forever. Rather just look and see so that you find the perfect one rather than going through many to be dissapointed." Aaron Ward.
God's GirlUser is Offline

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07/13/2011 7:32 PM  
Drake, no one but God ever knows everything. :)
DrakeUser is Offline

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07/14/2011 1:39 PM  
i know. its a joke about the joke on how teenagers think they know everything. we dont of course but i was making a joke.e interesting to know everythng though. :)
"For god so loved the world that he gave his one and only son. That whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life." Bible.
"For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of god". Bible.
"Use your head to show your heart what you truly want." Aaron Ward.
Do not just look on one side of the tree that you see for good apples but also look on the other for you may find the best where you aren't looking." Aaron Ward.
"Don't try to gather all apples off a tree to compare them. For that will take forever. Rather just look and see so that you find the perfect one rather than going through many to be dissapointed." Aaron Ward.
God's GirlUser is Offline

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07/14/2011 3:07 PM  
Yah it would be awesome to know everything.
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