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smartblonde77 User is Offline

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12/27/2008 12:43 AM
I really like this guy at Church and I think he might like me but his dads girl friends daughter (most likely a future step sister) is practically in love with him and I can tell he isn’t very found of her!! I think he might like me his dad and his dads girlfriend like me but she is telling my cousin her exboyfriend and wants to get with him again that I’m like stalking him and is gunna like tell him to watch out for me” because he and I talk A LOT at church! I don’t know what to do!!! I like him a lot he is really sweet but what if he believes her?? I really don’t stalk him I like him but like stalk him?? No!!!!

~Krista it's kinda crazy how time has a way of makein all these memories fade away so if theres only one thing you remember bout me remember that i loved you unconditionally!

artyprincess User is Offline

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12/29/2008 4:21 PM
Ok - that's a bit hard to follow...... Ummmmm..... Pray! And you know the real truth, you don't have to listen to gossip to find out what you should do. Ok - JoJo - your turn.........

God Can.

smartblonde77 User is Offline

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12/29/2008 11:12 PM
Ok lets make this simpiler..... i like this guy at church and his FUTRUE step-sister likes him alot but he doesn't like her! i like him and i think he likes me and his future step-sister hates me cuase me and him talk alot at church and so she is telling people well atleast my cousin that i'm a stalker and she is planing on telling the guy i like that i'm stalking him and to watch out for me! I hope thats simplier!

~Krista it's kinda crazy how time has a way of makein all these memories fade away so if theres only one thing you remember bout me remember that i loved you unconditionally!

Sandy

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12/30/2008 4:16 PM
It's okay if his future stepsister doesn't like you...especially if she likes him. Your intentions are sincere. You're not stalking him and if she does tell him that he shouldn't pay attention to it. You said both of y'all talk a lot at church so he should know you well enough by then to know the truth. Just calm down, pray, and know that truth will stand the test of time.

smartblonde77 User is Offline

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12/30/2008 10:40 PM
Ya i know i'm calmer now it was just like wow when you hear that someone is gunna talk about you like that to a guy you like! But i'll see him Sunday he has been in cali. for the past 2 weeks or so and so i'll see if he acts diffrent or not!

~Krista it's kinda crazy how time has a way of makein all these memories fade away so if theres only one thing you remember bout me remember that i loved you unconditionally!

maddiegirl User is Offline

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01/03/2009 2:45 PM
Hi. I'd say that if he really knows you he'll know the things that girl is saying aren't true, and he won't believe her. Good luck!! i hope it works out.

smartblonde77 User is Offline

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01/03/2009 11:11 PM
me to and thats is kinda the problem we "know" eachother and we do talk alot but we don't really KNOW eachother that well but i think i'll just put it in Gods hands and if its ment to be it will happen and if not oh well! Gods plan will be his lose!

~Krista it's kinda crazy how time has a way of makein all these memories fade away so if theres only one thing you remember bout me remember that i loved you unconditionally!

Hannahgotit User is Offline

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01/04/2009 5:20 PM
You need to just inore what she says she is gonna do, see what happens and take it in stride and pray pray pray.

<3 Hannah 2 Chronicles 20:21 After consulting the people, the king appointed singers to walk ahead of the army, singing to the Lord and praising him for his holy splendor. This is what they sang: “Give thanks to the Lord; his faithful love endures forever!”

JoJo

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01/05/2009 6:51 PM
Yeah it is hard. (Sorry i havent reply'd earlier, Ive just been on 2 camps and missed out alot of time on here...) My friends and I joke about our friends stalking their crushes, just for fun, but then to make fun of our friends, we'll say (in front of the crushes) that they stalk them, but we're just being idiots. But yeah, If she is planning on saying that you stalk him, maybe say to her, "You know I dont stalk him and you're just wanting to start a rumor because, I suspect, you like him too. I dont want to get into a fight, but I'll defend myself if I have to, but I wont sink down to your level, I wont tel him you're jealous etc, but I will say that I dont stalk him and that whoever told him that (without mentionion her name) must have some hidden reason why she's telling everyone that." It's hard, so id suggest keep praying and ask God to give you the right words to say. I think it's best to get God involved and keep talking to Him about it. If you need any more advice, feel free to Email me lol I hope I helped!

Turn up the music Turn it up loud Take a few chances Let it all out 'Cause you won't regret it Lookin' back from where you have been 'Cause it's not who you knew And it's not what you did It's how you live .-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. God Bless! Mwah XOXO JoJo

smartblonde77 User is Offline

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01/05/2009 11:10 PM
Ya he acted wierd this Sunday but i sing up front and he never really looked at me that i could tell and he was watching me it was wierd! But pretty much i know it will work out! heck it could be a funny inside joke soon!

~Krista it's kinda crazy how time has a way of makein all these memories fade away so if theres only one thing you remember bout me remember that i loved you unconditionally!

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