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life.laugh.loveUser is Offline

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09/08/2008 5:22 PM  
There's this amazing christian guy at my school. (FYI there's not many at my school anyways and if they are not really set in there faith) But this guy is. And I think I like him. But I have like no classes with him, and he's funny and outgoing and I'm like not outgoing. I don't know what to do? Should I just forget it or try to get him to notice me or something? Help?
JoJoUser is Offline

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09/08/2008 7:49 PM  
Hey there! I totally know what you mean!
I went to a christian school, and there still werent really any decent guys there!
Hm... well like I say about anything, Pray about it!
Maybe at the moment, just say Hi and ask him how his day's going. You know, just start trying to talk to him. dont say anything big, just start off with small things, when you know each other better, you can ask him stuff like "Hows church/youthgroup going etc. then maybe try getting to know him more. remember, you're still in school, so there is heaps of time for you to get to know him, slowly, if you rush things, he can be turned off, just aim at trying to be his friend first. Im sure William will have something to say about your situation, and it will be good to hear how he, as a guy, sees your predicament. dont try to stand out from the crowd just yet, be yourself and God will bring the right guy into your life. It may even be this guy, but it wont work unless you are being yourself. Pray. it's the most important thing. When God is the center of your universe, even if it doesnt work out, or even if it does, you'll feel great because you know God's got your back and knows whats best!
Hope that helped! You can message me if you need more help!
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

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JoJo
wjr1991User is Offline

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09/08/2008 9:49 PM  
Actually, I'm not sure I do... If you're interested in any of the same things, you might well be able to hang out with him outside of school, but yeah, basically what Jo said... try to become his friend... that's about the best thing you can do, honestly (I've kinda learned that it's more fun to be friends with a bunch of really cool girls than to have just one of them as a girlfriend, so I can only assume it's the same the other way around)... honestly, Jo, with you here, I think I'll just retire :-) well, maybe not...
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JoJoUser is Offline

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09/08/2008 11:01 PM  
HAHA! you're not allowed to retire! :P
Nah, its good having a guy answer the questions too!
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo
maddiegirlUser is Offline

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09/15/2008 6:02 PM  
I'd say introduce yourself to him and say hi when you see him.maybe then you guys can start out with friendship, and build on that.but don't change just because he's different from you.opposites attract
smartblonde77User is Offline

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09/20/2008 10:43 AM  
ya i would just be like hey whats? thats what i do and now i have like a gazzilion guy friends and it great!
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