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clareUser is Offline

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09/01/2009 1:03 AM  
I will add this, be careful how much of your personal life you share in the beginning of a relatonship. It creates a bond too soon. you may get very hurt. I learned the hard way. with a young man it's easy to connect fast and start sharing hurts and struggles but you must be careful or you both may be causing yourself much hurt. It leaves you with baggage that is hard to work through when you enter a realationship with someone else.
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09/04/2009 9:34 PM  
Wow, thank you so much JoJo and Clare! (And I totally understand the emotional overload, Clare! I hope things go well in your situation).

But I would definetely not go anywhere alone to meet someone, I'm grateful I have some sense there. I was thinking about inviting him to the Christmas market during Winter Break because I was planning on going there with my friends. But I definetely don't go anywhere alone, thanks to my parents. But I must say, this relationship stuff is hard because. . . well, it just is. My mother found my stepdad online and in South Asia, it's very common to forward mails back and forth and then get married. I think that because of past issues, I've grown up too quickly mentally, but I think I've gotten the answer, and that is to wait and finish school things. It's just that I've been fighting it because I hardly ever go through phases of liking someone, and when I do, they are really extraordinary people. I also feel that maybe in today's society, relationships are seen as something that is healthy, especially during teenage years. A lot of teens (some of them Christian) have been a relationship before, and I feel that it would be nice to be able to open your heart to someone, but like Clare said, you have to be careful that you don't say something intense too soon in a relationship. But he has told me something personal to him before regarding his situation. . . But! I haven't heard from him in two weeks, so we'll just see where things go. Thanks everyone!
emilyjanelleUser is Offline

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09/04/2009 11:34 PM  
something that I'm gonna probably be sharing on basically every topic I can is this:

http://www.boundless.org/girls
http://www.boundless.org/guys

those there are links to the Boundless Webzine, and from there, it's self-explanatory. =]

You may as well come quiet.
- Police Maxim
JoJoUser is Offline

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09/20/2009 2:40 AM  
Great link's Emily!!!
So recomend everyone go look at them!!!
OK one thing about starting LDR's is that... it's been hard for me... not knowing if I should try to see the person more or what :P
What do y'all think?
Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo
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