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LizUser is Offline

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01/07/2010 9:05 PM  
OK, my brother and I have this silly debate about purity rings: Do they go on the right or left hand? I wear mine on my left middle finger, because my parents bought me the wrong size and it doesn't fit on my ring finger. My brother wears his on his right middle finger. What is the majority? Left or Right? Give me some good answers please, I bet him a dozen cookies I was right. :P

A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her
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01/07/2010 9:20 PM  
I wear mine on my left ring finger. Cause i heard your supposed to replace it with your engagement ring. Send me some of those cookies

" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"

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01/07/2010 10:32 PM  
Pretty Darn sure its left hand ring finger
emilyjanelleUser is Offline

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01/08/2010 12:08 PM  
I wear mine on my left ring finger because that's your... ring finger! haha. it shows people that I'm waiting, emotionally and physically.

You may as well come quiet.
- Police Maxim
LizUser is Offline

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01/08/2010 1:37 PM  
Sweet! I totally won that one!
Thanks Y'all! :)

Sorry Nate, I'm not in the habit of shipping cookies. I could send you my parent's credit card # and you could go get some of those sugar cookies with an inch of frosting on the top! Hahaha

A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her
JoJoUser is Offline

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01/09/2010 6:56 PM  
I have mine on my left middle finger cuz mine's too big as well :P

Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

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God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo
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01/09/2010 7:16 PM  
Haha :P I don't have a purity ring, but I would agree to put it on your left ring finger because your putting it where your engagement ring would be. :) I have a ring that has Bible verses on it and I put it on my left ring finger.

whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect -Mark Twain
ScifiUser is Offline

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01/10/2010 1:35 AM  
Wouldn't having it on the left ring finger make people who happened to look think you were engaged? IDK... I don't wear one myself, so I wouldn't have a clue.

"The purpose of Christianity is not to avoid difficulty, but to produce a character adequate to meet it when it comes. It does not make life easy; rather it tries to make us great enough for life." -- James L. Christensen

"For a small reward, a man will hurry away on a long journey; while for eternal life, many will hardly take a single step." Thomas a' Kempis (1380-1471)
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Scifi
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01/11/2010 8:04 PM  
Awww haha thatll work to

" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"

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clareUser is Offline

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01/11/2010 8:12 PM  
I wear mine on my right pinkie finger.LOL its just a little too small for my ring finger. ya some people might mistake you as being engaged, but that depends on the style of ring. Oh well if a guy thinks you're engaged. If he's that serious he will find out if you are or not.
Waiting physically can be hard but emotionally can be harder. Anyone else struggle with that??? I;m not talking about crushes that are gone in a week. I've liked this guy for a year!!!!!
nateynateUser is Offline

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01/11/2010 8:21 PM  
oh yea, i struggle sometimes ha not always fun :p my teacher once asked me if i was married cause she saw it haha

" Wake up oh my soul
wake up and praise the Lord
rise up you sleepy soul
rise up and praise the Lord"

Enter Your Gates
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01/12/2010 7:37 PM  
I wear all rings and jewelry on my left hand and my watch on my right. It's an ocd thing.

Jesus has a thing for losers.
-Losers by Me in Motion
emilyjanelleUser is Offline

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01/14/2010 12:43 PM  
psht, Clare, of course NOBODY struggles with their emotions! what?!

NOT.

haha. ;p I have to run that race every day and most of the time it feels like going 3 steps forwards and 2 steps back, y'know?

@Scifi - someone at my church (no idea whom, but it was circulated) thought that my boyfriend and I were engaged a couple months back, and it was probably due to my purity ring being on my ring finger. but I quickly bit that rumor in the bud before it could grow anymore. no biggie! like Clare said, if somebody's really THAT interested in your relationship status, they'll have the courage to ask (to your face). I've found my ring to be a great witnessing tool, actually!

You may as well come quiet.
- Police Maxim
JoJoUser is Offline

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01/14/2010 8:20 PM  
EMOTIONAL STUFF... dont get me started lol
back when I was younger, i liked a guy for 9 years... that was a waste of 9 years of my life lol.
but at this moment, I like this guy, have for a year and a few months now... but i'm not exactly sure if I should wait a little longer incase something happens, or just giv up and just be friends... It's really confusing because it's been the first time in my life where I've felt like a guy could be the guy I wanna marry :P haha but we'll see... ATM we're just friends... so yeah... but I do have my down days where I'm like "GOD PLEASE MAKE HIM HURRY UP!!!!" lol not that I'd want someone to like me without choosing to :P ok i'll stop now :D

Turn up the music
Turn it up loud
Take a few chances
Let it all out
'Cause you won't regret it
Lookin' back from where you have been
'Cause it's not who you knew
And it's not what you did
It's how you live

.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.
God Bless!
Mwah XOXO
JoJo
LizUser is Offline

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01/15/2010 5:11 PM  
Wouldn't having it on the left ring finger make people who happened to look think you were engaged? IDK... I don't wear one myself, so I wouldn't have a clue.


Hahaha maybe some people, but def. not me! about 5 people this last year have thought I'm 13....I'm 17. According to how old i look I won't be getting married soon. :)

I'm not going to even start on emotional purity. I don't have enough time. :P

A girl should be so lost in God that a guy has to go in Him in order to find her
AdelynnUser is Offline

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01/15/2010 5:48 PM  
I don't have a "purity ring" but I used to wear this silver ring on my left hand ring finger that looks like two very thin bands stuck together, and a lot of people asked if I was married (not guys, older people without much else to ask about). Now I just have these three rings that I wear all the time, and it works out that the one on my left hand doesn't look like a wedding band at all =]

"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic
clareUser is Offline

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01/16/2010 4:05 PM  
Well, It would be different if I knew he didn't like me, but I know he likes me. In fact he is really serious, he's waiting for me to reject or accept the way he believes.Know what you mean Jojo when you're like 'this is a guy I could marry!'
clareUser is Offline

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01/16/2010 4:07 PM  
Oh and this guy is almost 23, and I'm 19 and look like I'm 15 or 16. So when he took me to his youth group the rumor got out he is hooking up with a 15 year old. I couldn't stop laughing!
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01/25/2010 11:43 AM  
it actually goes on left ring finger. because like nateynate said it gets replaced by the actual wedding band
artist_for_christUser is Offline

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01/25/2010 4:56 PM  
A purity ring is supposed to go on your left ring finger because that is where your wedding ring will go when you get married. It's a symbol of your commitment to God that you will remain pure in all ways, sexually, mentally, etc.

~Lauren~

But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ
Philippians 3:7-8
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