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Cerno4500

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01/21/2010 12:22 AM
Hello its cerno4500 again. This awesome girl and I were supposed to go see a movie saturday night, but things made it impossible to go and see it. A part of me was telling to wait until her and I go see this great speaker at a christian event. I know she really wants to go and see that. Its not until March though . But its weird you know, her and I have so much in common. Its like the best qualities about her and best qualities about me are what really connects us. Anyway I don't know if I were to wait until the event we both are really excited to go to, or should I tell her i want to enter a relationship with her. I mean I already told her I liked her and she responded with the same feelings. (by the way I told her out of fear because I don't want to be just a friend) I feel that God is telling me to wait, but why would God tell me to wait if she said responded with the same feelings. I don't know this is all very confusing. Need some help here. lol

CowCud1992 User is Offline

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01/21/2010 12:24 AM
Maybe just have like a casual hang out one night just to show her that you really are interested. how long until this event?

Cerno4500

Posts:97

01/21/2010 7:40 AM
Its march 19th

Adelynn

Posts:516

01/22/2010 9:35 PM
a relationship based on friendship is so much stronger than one that is rushed, or so I've seen. Maybe this is something that will build your trust together, instead of rushing past all of the great hanging out time that you can have!

"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic

nateynate

Posts:316

01/23/2010 2:25 AM
Well i cant tell you why God is saying to wait, maybe because your rushing, idk. But wat i can tell you is to trust him and not sway from wat your doing. Im going through the exact same thing right now but maybe a little worse (God told me not to date this girl i like, and boy that was not easy telling her that today), the only help i can really give you on this is to completely trust God and dont doubt wat you did. Thatll make it so much easier.

" Wake up oh my soul wake up and praise the Lord rise up you sleepy soul rise up and praise the Lord" Enter Your Gates

clare

Posts:932

01/23/2010 4:21 PM
If you think God is saying wait, you better wait. If you rush He has a way of bringing you back around with double force and that kind of hurts

Cerno4500

Posts:97

01/23/2010 8:56 PM
Its interesting though because that night it seemed that everything we tried to plan didn't work. But the event we are going to, everything we tried to plan did work and plus a few added bonuses. But the even funny thing is that there is something different about this girl. You see after I asked out another girl before i met her, i was turned down. I really thought I was going to go out with that girl. I prayed to God to help me go out with that girl. She said no. I was disappointed and confused. how could this be I thought. Then my mother asked me to take out the trash. As I was taking out the trash, the moonlight was shinning down upon where I was standing. And since I have to stand in that specific spot to put the trash away I had no choice but to stand there. The weird thing is this moonlight never shinned down like that before where I was standing. During that time as the moon was shinning down, i felt like I climbed more than a thousand feet only to fall that same amount. I felt like giving up, but that moonlight. There was something about that moonlight that told me to keep pressing forward. Why during that specific spot and time? The funny thing is that this moonlight seemed to me as though God was making a promise to me to keep pressing forward. The following week I was asked to go a meeting at my school for a class trip. After the meeting I went to the cafeteria and I met the new girl at school. Its interesting because after meeting her. we bonded so fantastically. The things that we have in common are so specific. I didn't realize until much later that i wrote about her before. A year ago i have written down a list of all the qualites I want in soul mate. She fulfills almost every quality and counting.

clare

Posts:932

01/23/2010 11:12 PM
That sounds so amazing!! I could almost top it but being the girl I'm waiting for him to do the asking...he's taking his time though but oddly, waiting isn't hard. I've know him a year, dated someone else I thought could very well be the one, and it wasn't. Waiting on God to reveal a small portion of his plan to us with high hopes!!! I hope everything goes well for you.

Cerno4500

Posts:97

01/24/2010 3:46 PM
Wanna know something. I am going to wait. I don't know why but I feel like waiting is the best thing for me. I believe that God wants me to wait. I may not understand all that see right now but God can see the bigger picture. All the pieces of the puzzle are not in line just yet, but they are going to be soon. When they are, they are going to make up the best picture I have ever seen.

clare

Posts:932

01/30/2010 9:38 PM
Perfect! I really admire you. I'm afraid we took God's plan into our own hands..heard the saying mess with fire you get burned? I challenge you to don't even try to see how close you can get to the fire. Keep the attitude you have now and God's going to go and amazing work with you and hopefully her.

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