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**Jes :-)
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| 05/18/2010 7:35 AM |
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| hey that almost sounds like our family! the boys would not be able to cook a big turkey dinner, or they might be but it would not be exactly like if i or my mom did it but they sure no how to what the kitchen is for!! cooking and washing dishes;-) they can cook enough that they sure would not starve if they were the only one at home. they could even help make buns;-)) but we girls liked to work out on the fields...so they got the priviledge of helping in the kitchen. my dad would very often wash the dishes after lunch. most people can't believe that but ya it's true!! |
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clare
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| 05/18/2010 1:57 PM |
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my dad does the dishes sometimes...mom never it up to the kids! my brothers can't do much in the kitchen! Except one..he worked in a bakery makes some good coffee. Mom and I quit doing the boy's laundry and it's up to them if they want clean clothes. Been a good experience for them for sure. I they need more kitchen skills... |
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**Jes :-)
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| 06/13/2010 4:08 PM |
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| i love to see guys wash dishes! they might think it is a girls job or humiliating for them to do it. but i love it! i have had guys come help me wash dishes and othere people would be like what!! i couldn't get him to do that!;-) oh ya the one time i was at my friends house i washed dishes there and two of the guys came to dry the dishes, which apparently was a rarity! |
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derek11
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| 07/28/2010 8:14 AM |
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What do you think about perfume? i love a girl who wears perfume.
Which do you prefer: text or call? i prefer texting and calling. texting for just making plans, and calling to act on them, like asking where you at? stuff like that
What do you think of us wearing nail polish? its cute, i dont really care for it, i like to help girls i know put nail polish on lol, its kinda fun
Do you talk about girls a lot to your guy friends? oh yes, cuz i am oh so confused.
What do you think of us wearing long earrings? i dont like long earrings. they are kinda annoying to me
Are there any hairstyles that you find particularly strange or annoying? nope
Do you find it weird or awkward when a girl puts make-up on in front of you? (like reapplying lip gloss after eating) no
what are the most important qualities that you want in your future wife? confidence, humor, loving, protective, being athletic, loves to be with her husband, talented...
when you date, do you look at long term relationships, or a short time thing? long tem
do you rather a girl not dye her hair, or do you want her to do whatever she feels like doing? or no preference? Do you even notice a girl’s hair? hey its what ever she feel like doing.
Do you pray for your future wife? Why or why not? If so, do you also write letters to her? yes cuz i hope that she is really the best girl out there for me, and that we can live a long happy life together
What do you think about high heels? Flip flops? Ballet flats? high hells no, flip flops to me say the girl is cool, laidback, and creative
Would you rather have a girl who is an athletic tomboy, or do you like the feminine type better? i want a girl who knows how to be a girl, but isnt afraid to break a few bones...
Does it really bother you when a girl wears a bikini? How big of a deal is it? no, its just a swimming suit.
Why do you never tell us what you're feeling...especially about us! That would save us so much confusion and second guessing!! because we dont want to hurt you or scare you away.
Why is being cool and tough so important to you guys? Girls think it’s really sweet when guys cry, or do sensitive stuff. because guys are so competitive towards one another, we never like to show another guy we are not tough.
Do you like it or do you hate it when girls ask for piggyback rides? i like it
Are there any types of clothing that you hate? That you love? nope, but i love hollister
What's your opinion on bracelets? Necklaces? Rings? Do you like them, hate them or don't care? i dont care
Do you think it's cute when a girl blushes, or awkward? yes
Do you like girls that are really outgoing or mysterious and harder to get? eh kinda sorta
Do you appreciate it if a girl says you have to talk to her dad before dating or do you not like it? its kinda like hmm well this could go one of two ways, get the girl, or get the dad... nobody wants the dad...
If a girls dad is really intimidating to most and sarcastic, does it turn you away? no
Do you appreciate girls who try to be modest or do you not care? i dont really care about it
Do you care if we call you "Baby, Sweetie, Sweetheart, Babe, Hunney, Punkin", or names of that sort? nope
Would you rather make the first move in a relationship or the girl?
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ruger414
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| 07/29/2010 3:18 PM |
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1.What do you think about perfume? I love faint perfume, not overpowering
2.Which do you prefer: text or call? Call. But i am one of the 3% of all America that AT&T doesn't cover so i settle for texting.
3.What do you think of us wearing nail polish? I prefer for you not to, girls don't realize that they look great without makeup and nail polish
4.Do you talk about girls a lot to your guy friends? Yes
5.What do you think of us wearing long earrings? Not into them
6.Are there any hairstyles that you find particularly strange or annoying? nope
7.Do you find it weird or awkward when a girl puts make-up on in front of you? (like reapplying lip gloss after eating) Not really. see the nail polish question
8.what are the most important qualities that you want in your future wife? Fun loving. likes kids. wants to be with her husband. can cook well. adventuresome, athletic... the list goes on...
9.when you date, do you look at long term relationships, or a short time thing? long term
10.do you rather a girl not dye her hair, or do you want her to do
whatever she feels like doing? or no preference? Do you even notice a
girl’s hair? Its her hair, and if i like her, her hair doesn't have very much imput on the relationship.
11.Do you pray for your future wife? Why or why not? If so, do you also write letters to her? Yes because she is the perfect person for me, and i for her.
12.What do you think about high heels? Flip flops? Ballet flats? High heels depends on the occasion, flip-flops if not all the time. my cousin wears flip-flops every day and there is about a half inch gap between her big toe and the others. it is gross.
13.Would you rather have a girl who is an athletic tomboy, or do you like the feminine type better? I like a girl who is feminine, but is also as athletic as me.
14.Does it really bother you when a girl wears a bikini? How big of a deal is it? Nope. Its just a swimsuit.
15.Why do you never tell us what you're feeling...especially about us! That would save us so much confusion and second guessing!! Because we may act tough, but we really are terrified that you my not like who we are.
16.Why is being cool and tough so important to you guys? Girls think it’s really sweet when guys cry, or do sensitive stuff. Because we have to be tougher than our guy friends. if they are not around, and i am just with girls, i can open up alot.
17.Do you like it or do you hate it when girls ask for piggyback rides? i like it
18.Are there any types of clothing that you hate? That you love? nope
19.What's your opinion on bracelets? Necklaces? Rings? Do you like them, hate them or don't care? i don't care
20.Do you think it's cute when a girl blushes, or awkward? super cute
21.Do you like girls that are really outgoing or mysterious and harder to get? outgoing
22.Do you appreciate it if a girl says you have to talk to her dad before dating or do you not like it? i really appreciate that. If you are planning on going long-term, you should get to know the family, who are most of the time very impressed with you, and the end up being really cool and nice people.
23.f a girls dad is really intimidating to most and sarcastic, does it turn you away? no
24.Do you appreciate girls who try to be modest or do you not care? i don't really care about it
25.Do you care if we call you "Baby, Sweetie, Sweetheart, Babe, Hunney, Punkin", or names of that sort? nope
26.Would you rather make the first move in a relationship or the girl?
id rather make the first move
27.What's the first thing you notice about a girl’s appearance? her hair
28.Do u think it's cute or stupid/lame when a girl cries over movies & stuff like that? As long as that movie isn't Twilight, i think its cute
29.Does it freak u out if a girl is like obsessed with weddings/marriage?
Or if she loves talking bout how many kid she wants or family/married
life related stuff all the time? Nope
30.does hugging girls incite... uh, less then pure thoughts in a guys mind? Do bear hugs or long hugs seem inappropriate to you? nope, nope
31.If you see a girl who smiles at lots of guys what's your first thought? Flirty or friendly? flirty
32.Do guys care/take notice of how much a girl eats (or doesn't eat)? I prefer for a girl to eat. i don't want my girlfriend to die from malnutrition
33.Skirts or pants…Which is more modest? Which is more attractive/do you like best on a girl? i like sundresses.
34.Do you avoid a girl when you like her or try and talk to her? I attempt to talk to her.
35.Would you care if your girlfriend wore her sweats to meet your friends?
Or would you rather her dress up so you could show her off? I don't care if she wears sweats.
36.Do you prefer it when a girl is super talkative, cracks jokes, and
speaks her mind OR more a girl who can still carry on a conversation
well, but a bit on the mysterious side (like doesn't wear her heart on
her sleeve)? (this is kinda sorta like the other one, but this girl explained it better) talkative
37.Why does it make you uncomfortable when a girl is upset/crying (If it does at all)? it doesn't
38.Is it really important to you to have a girl who is a good cook? ohh yeah.
39.What is the difference to you between a hot girl and a beautiful girl?
Which one would you rather date/marry? (You may answer this separately
if you would rather date one and marry the other) I would rather date and marry a beautiful girl. It is kinda like you can't trust a really hot girl, but beautiful girls are more pure.
Well there are my answers. Hope those helped.
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**Jes :-)
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| 07/29/2010 9:30 PM |
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hey i got a question! i no it is slightly off topic but i think it still fits in this forum! do guys have as many questions about girls too???? if so what are they!! lets hear about them! it seems like they don't it is just the girls that do but sometimes i wonder if they really have all the answers! ha ha! guys bring it on! |
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ruger414
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| 07/29/2010 11:32 PM |
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| Ok girls. Here goes.
1. Does it bother you if guys act tough all the time?
2. Do you like long of short hair on guys?
3. What do you prefer a guy to dress like?
4. Text or Call?
5. Do you like super buff guys, or don't care?
6. What would be your perfect first date?
7. What characteristics do you look for in your future husband?
8. What is up with your makeup? Do you really need that much?
9. Do you prefer an athelete or an nerd?
10. Millitary. Yes or no?
Ok. I will post later if i think of anything else. |
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wjr1991
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| 07/30/2010 4:00 PM |
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And some others:
Why is it that every mirror you pass, you have to check how you look and change something?
Why do you still make a fuss about your hair/appearance even when we outright say (and say honestly) we really don't care how you look, we just want to spend the time with you?
We're bound to have more. Actually, we should probably start a new thread for this one. |
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1 Peter 3:3
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| 07/30/2010 5:22 PM |
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For ThatOneGuy...
1. does it bother you if guys act tough al the time?
I like it when guys act tough sometimes. It's actually kind of attractive, but I also think it is so nice when a guy shows his feelings.
2. do you like long or short hair on guys?
I like short hair for the most part but it really depends on his personality and what he's confortable with. I just don't a guys hair to be as long or longer than mine...
3. what do you perfer a guy to dress like?
I like the clean "pretty boy" look. You know, the jenes with polos and nice shoes, but it's also nice to just roll in some sweats and a plain old Tee.
4. text or call?
Right now I don't have texting on my phone so a call would be prefered but even if I did have texting, it's still nicer to hear the other person's voice rather than misunderstanding something in a text.
5. do you like super buff guys or don't care?
I'm not really big on muscles. It doesn't matter to me how strong a guy is. Although I do like a little strength in a guy...
6. what would be your perfect first date?
I would have to say, a nice dinner, maybe a movie or just going to the park and sitting on a blanket and watching the sunset and talking for as long as we could. It may sound corny but hey... lol
7. what characteristics do you look for in your future husband?
I look for a strong and willing spirit, a best friend, a good father for my children, a positive influence on my life and the ones around him. Someone to love me for me and lift me up and encourage me and tell me when I'm doing wrong (in a nice way, lol).
8. what's up with your makeup? do you really need that much?
I don't really wear a lot of makeup. The only makeup I really wear is eye shaddow and a little blush for my cheeks. And that a rare thing like 1 or 2 times a week, it depends on what's goin on. Besides, true beauty is on the inside and if you have that, it will show on the outside.
9. Do you perfer an athlete or a nerd?
I prefer the humble, intelegent, and funny athlete. Not the ones that are always talking about themselves. If you're as good as you say you are then you shoudn't have to talk about yourself, other people will talk about you enough.
10. military. yes or no?
Honestly, unless God tells me that that's what He has for me, I do not want a guy in the armed forces. To know that the one I've waited for my whole life could be taken away from me at any moment, well... I don't think I could bear it to tell you the truth.
~ Hope that helps! Just keep in mind that we females are all unique in our own ways and that you will never find two of us alike, that's for sure. lol |
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Adelynn
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| 07/30/2010 6:36 PM |
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1. Does it bother you if guys act tough all the time? All the time, yes. As a joke, no. No one can possibly act tough all the time without acting, but once in a while- as long as it isn't hurtful to someone else, is fine. But trust me, we notice when a guy is cruel to anyone from the waiter to their little brother, and we also notice when you take the time to treat everyone like a person.
2. Do you like long of short hair on guys? I don't really care, as long as they aren't always swooshing their head back to get their hair out of their face- can you say girly?
3. What do you prefer a guy to dress like? Like himself. Although super tight skinny jeans are distracting.
4. Text or Call? Take the time to call. It means a lot.
5. Do you like super buff guys, or don't care? Not freakishly buff. I don't want to hug a rock =P But there is something about a guy who at least looks physically capable of getting things done.
6. What would be your perfect first date? oooh. I'd like to go to a bridge somewhere and watch the sunset while eating ice cream. Cheesy, I know ;-D Or hanging out around a campfire after a frisbee game =]
7. What characteristics do you look for in your future husband? Honest. Trustworthy. Loyal. Kind. Loving to everyone he meets. Patient. 1 Corinthians 13.4-7
8. What is up with your makeup? Do you really need that much? I agree, so many females go way overboard. My mom told me it's because they are insecure and how they look is all they think they have going for them. Guys pay attention to their bodies, so that is where they get their self-worth. We need more guys to talk about their other merits to help them realize their full worth!
9. Do you prefer an athelete or an nerd? Athlete... but that is what I like, the football parties and going to games and playing a sport for hours, doesn't mean that all women do!
10. Millitary. Yes or no? I am not a supporter of what this countries military stands for, but I completely understand and sympathize with why people join the military. So it doesn't really have any bearing at all. Though there is something about a guy with a crew-cut and huge shoulders that kind of takes my breathe away... just being honest here, I'm fully grounded in the reality that most guys are not like that and I think that is perfectly okay =D |
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Adelynn
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| 07/30/2010 6:37 PM |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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ruger414
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| 07/30/2010 7:46 PM |
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| Hmmmm. I would have to say Bar-B-Que, then a movie, then whatever happens. I like spontaneous. |
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**Jes :-)
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| 07/30/2010 10:10 PM |
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Ok girls. Here goes.
1. Does it bother you if guys act tough all the time? Not really, but it is awesome when you get to see that they are actually soft on the inside, even tho they try to be strong men.
2. Do you like long of short hair on guys? Short!! like not that they have to be really short but just a decent hair cut! NOT long hair!
3. What do you prefer a guy to dress like? Depending on the occasion, but i love black dress pants with a dressy shirt! but there again depending on the situation, i like jeans, just a casual look too.
4. Text or Call? Doesn't really matter to me. A call is good. but if i had to call someone every time i txd i would pry have to hire a secetary!!lol!
5. Do you like super buff guys, or don't care? I like to see that they are strong. but that is not one of my main priorities!
6. What would be your perfect first date? Just spending time together. Nothing in particular. I no it isn't a good answer but it's the best one i can come up with now.
7. What characteristics do you look for in your future husband? Strong leadership with Godly matters, loving, caring for other peoples needs, faithful to God, willing to provide for a family, loving attitude towards children.
8. What is up with your makeup? Do you really need that much? No! I don't wear it at all.
9. Do you prefer an athelete or an nerd? Just a decent attitude. With a kind heart
10. Millitary. Yes or no? No
And some others:
Why is it that every mirror you pass, you have to check how you look and change something?
That is a good one! I really don't no either
Why do you still make a fuss about your hair/appearance even when we outright say (and say honestly) we really don't care how you look, we just want to spend the time with you?
I suppose it is just a girls thing to do hair. I don`t no. I don`t spend a while lot of time doing my hair.
We're bound to have more. Actually, we should probably start a new thread for this one.
Ya i agree it might be good to start a new thread.....my fault i shoulda done ot in the first place!
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ruger414
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| 07/30/2010 10:19 PM |
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| You said no to military. How come? |
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**Jes :-)
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| 07/30/2010 10:23 PM |
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| um...i suppose i would rather prefer him working a different job. i no theres gotta be someone out there for that postion but i`m just not to keen on having someone who is in the military. i have worked for a lot of people who have been in the army and it just didn`t interest me the least bit. no offense to anyone tho. |
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ruger414
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| 07/30/2010 10:29 PM |
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| Ok. Thanks for Clarifying. |
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clare
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| 07/31/2010 12:40 AM |
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1. Does it bother you if guys act tough all the time? Sometimes! I like a guy that can show a softer side, or at least a more gentle side at times. It means a lot to me when I see a guy cry.
2. Do you like long of short hair on guys? I don't like really short hair, or rally long. depends on the hair. I Do not like hair that covers their eyes
3. What do you prefer a guy to dress like? Depends on the guy! I love cowboy western styles, but one some guys black baggy jeans and chains looks perfectly normal. Whatever they wear keep it clean and tidy!
4. Text or Call? Hmm...I Love texting, but I think calling is more personal.
5. Do you like super buff guys, or don't care? I don't!!!! Sometimes it looks so fake!! Have enough muscle to work, look pretty hott with your shirt off, but in all, it doesn't really matter.
6. What would be your perfect first date? My perfect first date...A picnic, or a nice meal, nothing fancy, and then watch a sunset. I'm kinda crazy about sunsets
7. What characteristics do you look for in your future husband? Patient! Forgiving. Hardworking, but can set work aside to devote time to wife and family. Loves kids, and not a realy city kid
8. What is up with your makeup? I don't wear any Do you really need that much? I don't get why girls wear so much!
9. Do you prefer an athlete or an nerd? I prefer...country boy!
10. Military. Yes or no? No...I believe in non resistance, and if you have to go to the military then go as someone who is helping, like a paramedic...
I don't spend much time if front of the mirror AT ALL!! But if there happens to be a row or mirrors in the store I'll walk down that isle! haha A girl always feels not pretty enough, or not as beautiful as she should be, always! That's why we are so concerned if our hair is ok or dress straight.
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| 07/31/2010 3:13 AM |
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1. Does it bother you if guys act tough all the time?
yes! it drives me crazy. I want someone who reacts to what I tell him.
2. Do you like long of short hair on guys?
It really depends on the guy's face shape, it's all about the individual.
3. What do you prefer a guy to dress like?
It really does not matter to me, though, I do like a man who knows how to make his clothes look good on him
4. Text or Call?
Text, I feel I can talk without all the awkwardness of talking face to face or even a call.
5. Do you like super buff guys, or don't care?
Well, I love arnold schwarzenegger. So, I like buff men, just not too buff, I like the heathy look.
6. What would be your perfect first date?
I think getting a coffee and talking or going to the movies and then going and just talking, or even just a walk. NOT DOWN SHIFTING ON AN ATV AND ALMOST KILLING YOURSELF!!! you know who you are.
7. What characteristics do you look for in your future husband?
I cant discrabe him, there are too many things to count
8. What is up with your makeup?
I love makeup but I try not to over do it, I like eye makeup the most, it makes a statment. not sure what.
Do you really need that much?
No. no one needs makeup its just something, I think, that, if used right, helps bring out your natural beauty
9. Do you prefer an athelete or an nerd?
I would like someone atheletic, but also smart. not just all looks not brain.
10. Millitary. Yes or no?
Yes and no, I would love to have a guy who wants to help his country, but I would be so scared. |
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Adelynn
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| 07/31/2010 9:23 PM |
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| Guys, why is there always one girl whose reaction guys will look at when they say something funny or show off or something? What is it about that girl that even if they don't "like" her they always seem to be watching for her reaction to what they do? |
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"Angel of Mercy, how did you find me? How did you pick me up again? Angel of Mercy, how did you move me, why am I on my feet again?" -One Republic |
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ruger414
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| 07/31/2010 9:29 PM |
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We like to make sure that we are being noticed.
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