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Filia Domini User is Offline

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08/04/2011 4:54 PM
Girls, when do you think a guy is worth pursuing?

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08/06/2011 2:18 AM
ok just first off... by "pursuing" for a girl, I think that should mean, when is it worth letting the guy be your pursuer... I dont think a girl should ever initiate the relationship, it is kinda demeaning to the guy, like saying he wasn't MAN enough to step up, so us girls had to do it... ok I think it's worth letting him be your pursuer when he meets everything on your list. (or comes as close as humanly possible haha) with some exeptions of course,,, like the foundations NEED to be met, like for myself, is he a christian? can he hold a job? do i like him? does he have some sort of interest in music, dance, kids, etc etc. those I don't compromise on... stuff that I'd like would be a dancer/guitarist/singer all in one haha (in a perfect world) and blonde, blue eyed, tonned... etcetcetc so i think he can be your pursuer if he meets the uncompromisable things on your list, and of course you should pray about it, and ask God to reveal to you if he's a worthy guy (btw, guy's do the same for girls!!!) but really, sometimes you'll only know once you have a friendship and can see the real him (when your feelings aren't a factor... feelings blind you to sometimes REALLY OBVIOUS downsides...) i should know, cuz well, i was totally blind with my last great attempt at a long relationship... and now, after, I realize some things he did were very annoying etc...

Turn up the music Turn it up loud Take a few chances Let it all out 'Cause you won't regret it Lookin' back from where you have been 'Cause it's not who you knew And it's not what you did It's how you live .-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-. God Bless! Mwah XOXO JoJo

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