Shaunti Feldhahn

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How do I respect him when he doesn’t love me? Download

Are you excusing men for lusting after other women/porn?  Download

My marriage is in a breakdown b/c my wife discovered I’m struggling with porn and she’s having a hard time with this – what do we do? Download   I'm so discouraged and I don't know what to do, any suggestions?  Download

How can I get my wife to understand how important sex is to me? Download

You dealt with the man's urge to look at other women, and to recall images later, but you didn't deal with self-stimulation as a reaction to recalling those images. My husband would like to know if men responded that they felt the urge to do this. A related question would be whether men were asked about using magazines in this way as well. Are these activities within the parameters of what most men find normal and acceptable?  Download

Why should I be the one to do all the work when he’s not willing to work on the relationship? Download

How do I talk to my wife about how important it is to me that she put an effort into her appearance? Download

How do I talk to my husband about how important it is to me that he put an effort into his appearance? Download

I can’t ever seem to do anything right in my wife’s eyes, how do I resolve that? I’ve given up. Download

Women seem to want to have their cake and eat it too. Would they really choose to give up financial benefits for me to be home more? Download

Overall: after being married for 10+ years we are total strangers to each other and thinking about packing it in. Any advice?  Download

What advice would you give to a woman whose husband won’t respond to her emotionally? Download