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Re: Question

SmeagolMan — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:42:15 GMT

Okay ladies this is a question for you. Do you respect a guy more when they tell you that they like you or does it go down when that happens. Cause from my mindset I feel like a total idiot, specially when they don't like you that way. Any comments?

Fidgit- Um... Sex

Pandemonium — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 14:56:53 GMT

Um... I feel a little odd about bringing this up but Guys, first time... the girl is pushy or nervous, how would you deal with it

Fidgit- Um... SEX

Pandemonium — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 14:54:23 GMT

Ok... I feel a little odd bringing this up but... Guys, first time and the girl is pushy or nervous. how would you react to that

Guys, how do we be respectful?

Jessamae — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:08:02 GMT

It seems a silly or maybe obvious question, but really, what are some everyday little ways we can show the guys around us that we respect them? And without them thinking we fancy them for paying them the attention?

Girls reading FYMO

Jessamae — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 23:22:14 GMT

I am new to this site, and have recently read For Young Women Only. I found it extremely helpful but I'm now curious as to whether it is appropriate for girls to read For Young Men Only (I was caught by the "only" in the title) to further understand teenage guys' perspectives on girls. What do you think?

So if he likes you...

sillyface1 — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 02:06:22 GMT

Will he 100% always initiate?

I'm really shy, and the guy I like is too. Here's something I messed up on. I deleted him from my facebook, with the intent of getting over him. But I ran into him a few months later, and we had a pretty good conversation. So I added him again recently, even though I worry that he thinks it was a strange thing to do. But he hasn't said anything, or commented, or emailed. Should I email him? Would that be initiating too much? If he liked me, would he let me know?

GIRLS i need yo help

AlexTi — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 15:09:24 GMT

When do us guys no wen 2 take da nex step? like when do you kiss here? i mean some times u try but she says no and gigles and u embarraesed

confused

AlexTi — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 21:02:07 GMT

around my freinds I act like im good and then BAM the girl i like shows up and i cant talk right

not honorable guys

Bwatje — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 18:46:23 GMT

The first four people I got crushes on all turned out to be real, um, not honorable guys; I have several nice christian guys that I like to hang around but we are almost never see each other. I am purposely not liking them because I know it will ruin our friendship. So I am wondering what to do? Should I just not like anyone? For me that isn't very hard because I always see the worst in people and actually think a lot like a guy. But my friends all think I HAVE to like someone! What is a girl to do?! They think I still like the other bad guys because they can't see anything wrong with them. Does anyone else have any advice?

Thanks!

P.S I am thinking of reading "For Young Men Only" think it's a good idea? I can't relate much to "For Young Women Only".

my sis is marrying a jerk!!!

clarissa — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 16:35:05 GMT

I Don't know what to do!!!My older sister is getting married labor day weekend. My parents aren't happy, my grandparents are really upset, and I don't want to see this happen!

My sister is 23 and been going out with this guy for about a year, this guy has never made a move to get to know my parents, or try in any way to meet their expectations. He doesn't work, needs some surgeries, won't even try to loose weight to make those surgeries possible.

My sister and I were raised in a very very conservative setting and he was raised a street kid. He thinks my parents are quacks and that all us kinds have been ruined and my parents did it all wrong. My dad made every move in his busy life to try to get to know this guy but he never tried to do his part. Then one day he asked dad if he can marry my sis, dad looked at him and said "why? you don't have a job, you're aren't taking care of yourself so you can get those surgeries, you have sat here for two hours saying how much better your life will be with her, but not one word about how her life will be better for HER. You haven't met my requirements of coming out and hanging out with the family on weekends. No you don't have my permission, but you have it to enter a stage of more commitment" This guy said well if that's how you feel, screw you, you just don't want your daughter happy and he asked my sis to marry him at a party. He did in front of a crown cuz then she wouldn't say no. And he said that's why he did too!!

All my relatives are upset, this guy won't let my sis come hang out with the family alone, he is a mater manipulator, and my sis is totally falling for it!! She didn't ask mom or grandma or even her own sisters to go with her to buy a dress, she had friend go with her. All this is making me so sick, my sister is so blissfully unaware of what is going on, and yet she refuses to listen to my parents advice. Pretty much the only person who can make a difference here is ME. and I'm scared. Since she started going out with this guy I haven't once got to hang out with her alone, her BF is always there. I really need to talk to her. Even tho I am 4 years younger I was in that situation before with a big jerk trying to marry me. My dad is so upset about seeing his daughter getting sucked into this, he is giving up, he might not even walk her down the isle...what do I do!! I am the only one who can maybe get my sister to wake up!!

whew that was LONG...please answer, I am trying to get my sister to hang out this evening without her fiancee but I doubt he will let her be alone with me. He knows I don't like him.